WHAT DO U THINK ABOUT MARRYING ME?
Okay2… lek2… jangan panik.. this is not my question to any of you. It was an sms i received juz now at 00:38:38 12-17-2005 from someone..
And i reply something to the effect "well, honestly i can never marry a penzina, but if it’s a consolation, i’m sure we’ll have great sex if i marry you".. And came the angry and insulted reply, "Penzina.. Thanks 4 being honest. Never thought u think of me as low as that. What about not being friends at all. A sinless girl like u with a penzina wouldn’t make a good pair. Thanks anyway, tengku permaisuri.."
The thing is, i don’t want to beat around the bush, so that’s the only reason I can give him (i didn’t mention about him never finishing his studies and never stick to one job). I don’t want him to have any illusions that it is even remotely POSSIBLE.. Well, what i can say at this time, a partnership with Ameen sounds more logical than a partnership with him. Ngeheheh..
I don’t understand people these days.. not praying is natural, not puasaing also not a big deal at all, sex is also normal… not that I’m a saint myself.. i occasionally (and recently always) miss my prayers (subuh mostly).. but i try to perform it as best as I could and qada’ whatever prayer i missed.. and it’s between me and God whether he wants to accept it or not.
But how can people calling themselves Muslims but give no regard at all to the Rukun Islam?? How can Muslims condone sex?? Hell yeah i know sex is the best thing in the world, sex is a bliss u can’t find elsewhere.. i’m perfectly aware of that.. but why can’t we just wait?? And why mock people who’s against pre-marital sex? Well, I don’t hate people who have pre-marital sex, extra-marital sex. They are also in my circle of friends. But I just can’t MARRY anyone like that. Not when there’s a saying in the Qur’an they’ll be keturunan penzina for SEVEN GENERATIONS!!!
Well, i’m not here to preach actually.. My point is, I need someone who can guide me, dunia and akhirat. i don’t want to be the one guiding.. it’s too heavy a burden to carry. And i don’t need someone with overbearing ego who cannot hear blunt honesty. He is very good looking.. and well mannered.. with a sense of humor.. but that’s just not enough…
December 23rd, 2005 at 9:04 pm
Seeking someone who is true for u is difficult.The thing that u said, is true. Not only happen to u but to all of us.
December 24th, 2005 at 1:36 pm
Wow, msia pun dah camtu ke sekarang. Tak sangka siut. Ke aku je yg tak nampak?
March 10th, 2006 at 5:51 pm
how proud ia am of u ajah…benda2 gini la yg aku dok citer kat my friends…well…looks like we have the idea when it comes to this part..susah nak cari a decent guy these days…hope we’ll meet someone..someday..u go girl!!
April 18th, 2006 at 6:33 pm
Hey people, I am new here.
I am just curious i.e. as far as i am aware ,it is not even prohibited for a man to marry a pelacur (penzina) . So what does that say about penzina? They are not the best of choices but certaintly they are not a taboo group to marry.
May 5th, 2006 at 5:48 am
warrior - i didn’t say it’s prohibited. We’re given choices in life. I choose not to be with anybody who has that kind of history (penzina) coz it was said that once you are a penzina, up until 7 generations of yours will be a penzina. I nak keturunan i kekal keturunan orang baik2. it’s as simple as that.